I had to lobby and cry alot so I could bring my dog up, I am not sure how that will go because dogs have hair, need to go out, and the house might get messed up. My dear faithful LDS aunt married a good non-member man.
Almost everything is complicated. Now he is home for dinner every night, takes a fraction of the calls, and doesn't work holidays.
He'll pitch in when he can, but that isn't too often. That is the million dollar question.
He sees all families being able to stay together. This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully.