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I guess the only risk is your husband having an affair with someone at work. I agree we shouldn't continue if we can't accept each other as we are.
Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed.