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Do you know anyone working in medicine or in the healthcare field.
Also, I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you with that guy: I'm sure you will meet someone else that's just as wonderful but treats you better if you haven't yet.
If you marry him, you are committing to accepting him without the church and all that this entails.
If we can say them together, great; if not.