She will not marry you until you convert to mormonism whole cloth.
Sorry ladies, but that's just doesn't cut it for me. I felt insane and crazy for being upset and considered just leaving ASAP.
I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed. Break it off amicably now, before it gets too difficult.
Doctors want to be with their families and attend events but because of work they just can't.